I decided that I wanted to see what it was like to do the show free form and see what kinds of ideas came up in conversation between me and my co-host Beth.

In the back of my mind I imagine the show being more like Howard Stern and his side-kick Robin, bantering back and forth all the time. Listening to them was exciting because you never knew what was going to come out of their mouths. I want Defy the Box Radio to be like that; spontaneous and fun, and I like the wild card aspect of not knowing what we are going to come up with during the conversation.

I have to say that I feel the show was a wild success!

Beth and I had an amazing, organically unfolding conversation. The call was effortless and I had a blast doing it and the people who were listening live said the show rocked!

Whoo-hoo!

I think we’re to something here.

Give it a listen and let me know what you think in the comments below.

Lately, I have been very curious to learn about how you go about creating change in your life.

this  morning I made this video for you……

It was awesome!

We talk about what a pre-packaged life is, how to break free, and flying your freak flag high and proud.

I decided that I would play around with my IMovie software and make a video for you.

This is what I came up with. I hope that you enjoy it.

( The date for the class mentioned in this video has been changed to March 4th at 12:30-1:30 PM EST  get more info. about it here )

When I first read this I was very impressed. It resonated with the core message behind Defy the Box.

Let your Freak Flag Fly in order to enjoy great meaning and success.

I can’t stress this point enough…… It’s OK to be different, and there is nothing wrong with you.

It’s time to stop making yourself wrong and trying to stuff yourself into the “Box” that society is trying to cram you into. It is a waste of your time and energy, and it just doesn’t feel very good.  You would be better served by embracing these “problems” that other folks think you have and finding an environment that supports them.

I can’t stress how important it is to create the right environment and find the right people to surround you. You are not necessarily born into it. Sometimes you need to go out and create it. I think that accepting yourself helps a lot with this. The way you feel about yourself and what makes you different directly affects who and what you attract in to your experience.

For example, when I had Kali from the Kink Academy on DTB radio, we talked about authentic sexuality and the importance of accepting and feeling good about your desires. If you feel that your kinky desires are bad, then you tend to attract a person into your experience who feels that you are bad for wanting those things…..which in turn feeds your feelings of being bad.  When you embrace your desires and feel good about them, you will attract people in to your experience who are down with them too, and you can enjoy some fun and feel good about it.

Is there anything about you that you are tired of trying to fix?

What would happen if you embraced  it ?

You can listen you the Freak Factor episode here: