Feb
01

PUSH That EJECT Button!

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Do you ever get that antsy feeling – like you’re on the verge of something big and you want to switch things up and shake loose anything that isn’t working for you?

I was feeling that way just recently.

Thanks to Joanne Russell for the image

I had my finger on the eject button and was ready to cast off a few things that weren’t rocking my business world……BUT…I was noticing a slight hesitation to PUSH that EJECT button because I was worried about what people might think.

I was afraid that people would think I was flaky or unreliable, and they would be mad at me for changing up the things that they were used to.

Have you ever been there- afraid to ditch the stuff that isn’t working for you because you’re afraid someone won’t like it or think poorly of you?

I had to laugh at myself when I sat down and looked at my hesitation and I realized what was going on!

I’ll be the first one to tell you that what other people think about you is none of your business- you can’t control their thoughts. When I waste my time worrying about what other people think, I am not honoring what feels right to me. If I continue to offer programs that don’t feel right to me, just because I’m afraid that someone else won’t like it, I’m not acting from a place of alignment.

Doing things that don’t feel right is no way to run your business, or your life!

But we still do it way too often.

Where are you doing things in your business now that don’t feel right?

Maybe it’s the way you communicate with your list, or the programs that you offer, or the way you work with people?

I’m committed to flying my freak flag and creating from a place of alignment, and that means NOT doing things that don’t feel right to me. If that means hitting the ejector button every now and then so be it!

Eject Away!!!!

I took a good hard look at my business and realized that there were a number of things I was doing that didn’t feel right to me.

I was creating group programs because I was told that it was the way to make money- but for me it didn’t feel right- so I ejected it! Now I’m having fun getting up close and personal with you during Unfurl Your Freak Flag Sessions!

I also decided that I didn’t like the formality of the fancy e-zine template that I had. I’d wanted to ditch it for a while but felt attached because I had spent a good chunk of money on it; so I might as well use it. But every time I thought about writing my e-zine and coming up with all the content I felt pressured and unwilling. So I ejected it! Now I write love notes and whisper sweet nothings in my peoples ears.

The last thing I ejected was a private online community that wasn’t working for me. I created it because I thought it was a good idea and everyone else was doing it, then I realized I wasn’t a group site kind of girl. I’ve always drifted away from every group site I’ve been a member of and gone off in pursuit of something new and shiny. Now I embrace who I am and have set myself free to flit about as I like.

I’m now creating my business form a place of alignment and it feels good!

What about you?

What are you ready to eject?

I’d love to read your thoughts in the comments below.

9 Comments

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Oh that old Eject button! Isn’t it amazing how even us brilliant, autonomous, strong-minded ladies can still get sucked into whirlpools and legtraps of things that just don’t work?! I often use gardening in analogies with my clients and I always say, rigorous pruning and dead-heading is what makes plants bloom for full and beautifully-so eject away sister!
Bri Saussy´s last [type] ..How Magic Works

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ROCK ON…

I’m finally starting to really get into my groove with this stuff…

It kills me that though we so often know the things to do (or not do as the case may be) we still get caught in our own traps from time to time. Interesting, huh?

Thanks for putting this out there… love to read about others processes and how they work through things.. Great reminders for me.
Angel´s last [type] ..what i know to be true (or, a rant)

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Yay, Leah! Isn’t it a great feeling when you ditch something wrong and find the thing that feels exactly right? I had that same feeling a while back, when I ejected the notion that ClickAClass should be all things to all people, and focused in on serving the reader I know: moms who are crazypants busy (my own freak flag, of sorts). I went from feeling like I was wearing a tight, old, itchy grey wool sweater to wearing a superluxe high-end cashmere in a bright, popping pink color! Love it! Thanks for the affirmation and reminder. Keep ‘em coming!
Jessica´s last [type] ..Feels like the first time….

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Wow! Thank you, thank you, thank you! This is the exact post I needed to read today. I do worry about what other’s think and hadn’t seen it from this view point. I’ve been focusing on following my gut; but I haven’t taken this all the way through the process. I feel so much lighter having read this! Thank you!
Claire´s last [type] ..Virtual Valentine Brings the Party to You

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As someone who works with people on their intentional spiritual path, I really appreciate you aligning with your true self and carrying it forward into your business. The world needs more people like you to bring integrity back into the foreground. Thank YOU!

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GREAT post!! I am totally going thru a major shift myself and people sometimes look at me like i’m totally crazy…. but i’m not! I just know what i want and am ready to let go of all the crap that no longer serves me!

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YES! Being willing to hit the eject button is even more important in business than elsewhere in life…because if you’ve got something you want to eject but you’re hanging on to it anyways, it turns everything else into a HUGE DRAG. I went through a similar process towards the end of last year when I accepted that a coaching/consulting type business model was simply not sustainable for me, for multiple reasons, and that that was just fine – even though that’s what everyone else was doing. Thanks for the reminder, Leah – I still need it on a regular basis!
Michelle´s last [type] ..Are you giving up your power & don’t even know it?

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I love your encouragement to eject. Smiling. Super important in business and every aspect of life, this sense of renewal. I think sometimes we are so afraid of change and forget that it is the only constant in life. I love to fine tune my alignment and shift the way things feel and work. “Now I embrace who I am and have set myself free to flit about as I like.” —> yes! I might be ready to eject a community project I had going. I don’t think it isn’t for me, it is simply not the time. And so it will morph into something else and so excited about it. Just keep playing!

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I’ve been a rule-follower all my life. I always did what I was supposed to do as a kid, quaking in my mary-janes in pure terror for fear of getting in trouble, of rocking the boat, of disappointing my parents. I know that when I got out of college, I felt their pressure to follow the corporate 5-year plan for success, and in the 15+ years that I’ve been out of college now, I’ve felt their disappointment many, many times since I didn’t follow the path they felt I should have. It’s only been in recent years that I’ve learned to unplug my circuits from the should’s and the ought-to’s and to embrace my own inner freak. I loved this post, Leah, and I’m glad to hear that other ladies have waved their freak flags proudly, as well!
Melanie´s last [type] ..Boudoir as Therapy

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