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Nov
11

This is the Rocket Fuel

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You want more from your life – More passion, more connection, more money….so what do you do about it?

Do you sit there hoping that someone/something will come along and make your dream come true?

Do you sit there saying your affirmations and intentions over and over again and waiting for the LOA to do it’s thing?

If either one is your strategy- Good Luck!

I’m of the same mindset as Danielle Laporte when it comes to using hope as your strategy.

It’s too passive.

Saying your affirmations and intentions over and over again is a little bit better –at least your doing something- but the energy behind it tends to be coming from a place of lack. What you want hasn’t shown up yet and you’re noticing that so you keep asking for it over and over again.

Since the Law of Attraction is responding to your energy…..it doesn’t matter what your saying…if you feel the lack  and  that is what is driving your actions- the lack is what you’ll get more of.

This is what works- appreciate everything you already have. Actively notice and feel good about the areas of your life that you want to change.

If you want more passion in your life- think about all the things in your life that you already feel passionate about and spend time appreciating them.

You want more connection- think about all your relationships and all the places where you already feel connected and appreciate them.

Here’s the big one…..You want more money- appreciate the money that you already have. Feel good about being able to pay bills and buy coffee. Be excited about any money that comes in.

Appreciation is the rocket fuel that will take your life to the next level.

Seriously! Why would the Universe …or anyone for that matter….give you more of anything if you don’t appreciate what you already have???

And that is why we do Amplification Friday around here! To give you and me a chance to focus on what we appreciate from our week so we can get more of the juicy goodness that rocks our world!

Here is what I’m appreciating this week-

I appreciate the late blooming roses outside my window. They are so beautiful!!

All the birthday love that came my way! I was pampered and spoiled and showered with lovely gifts. My sweetie treated me like a queen – actually, he always does ;-)   He gave me a beautiful new mermaid locket, which I can’t wait to put some pictures into!!!

I appreciate the ease with which the words are flowing from my fingers. The more I commit to speaking from my own voice the easier it becomes.

I appreciate the opportunity to rock the mic at Zestfest this weekend!  I get to talk about one of my favorite subjects- flying your freak flag- with a group of amazing women. It totally rocks!

 

What are you appreciating??

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Apr
28

Is It Really Worth It?????

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The topic of struggle and pushing through has been coming up again and again recently. This is what some of you are saying:

“I know…they say that mercury is retrograde….but come on! Does it really have to be this difficult?”

“I am on the verge of giving up my dream because I am so sick of wasting my vital life energy when I keep coming up against road block after road block. Is following my dream really worth it?”

Listen closely to this:

“YES IT IS!”

It is so worth it to go after your kick-ass dream life!

Your dreams and desires are leading you to your own unique higher purpose. They feel good to think about for a reason! They are in alignment with who you really are and what will bring you the most happiness, satisfaction, and meaning into your life. Your dreams are where the juicy goodness lives.

I am not going to sit here and tell you that going for your dream is easy, because it is not. There is definitely some work involved on your part, but it does not have to be a struggle or suck all your vital life energy.

This is the thing you need to realize: These blocks and obstacles are lessons that you need to learn in order to clear away all the old “baggage” that is not in alignment with your new kick-ass life. They are an indication that it is time to step back and look within, decide what would be better, or to try a new approach. You are going to make mistakes! Maybe even big mistakes!  It is not the end of the world. The better you get at tuning in and noticing how something is feeling and working for you, the sooner you can adjust your course. Then get right back to it and try something new until you discover what works for you!

If you find yourself struggling or feeling your energy drained, it is most likely because you are resisting the lesson, or trying to force your way through the obstacle. I know that this can be confusing, and frustrating!  It is all about looking inside and taking ownership of your experience and treating every challenge as an opportunity for growth.

I know that from personal experience this can be difficult to do on your own. I want you to know that I am here to help you with this if you will let me.  Signing up for this free webcast that is a great place to start!

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Dec
23

It’s easier than you think……

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I find that thinking about changing your life can be overwhelming! I talk to people every week who are wanting something to be different but the idea of quitting their job, going on a diet, ending their relationship, or what ever other ‘big change they think they are going to have to create’ seems impossible.

Abraham-Hicks offers a different perspective. It is all about focusing on what feels good to you and what you appreciate, and shifting your energy towards bringing in more of that…rather than having to get rid of things. Eventually the good stuff crowds out the bad.
Try it out and see what happens!

So the big question is, “Well, do I just dump all those unwanted things and try to start fresh?” And we say, no. You just set the Tone, where you are, by looking for things to appreciate. And by setting your Tone in a very clear deliberate way, anything that doesn’t match it gravitates out of your experience, and anything that does match it gravitates into your experience. It is so much simpler than most of you are allowing yourself to believe.

— Abraham-Hicks

Excerpted from the workshop in Boston, MA on Saturday, October 4th, 1997 #297