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What I learned at the Kink Academy
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This weekend I went on a fun adventure to the Kink Academy and got to spend some time with Princess Kali. She ROCKS! She is a true example of someone who is not afraid to embrace her Inner- Freak to create a life that is fun and prosperous.She offers a wide variety of classes and workshops as well as one –on- one mentoring to folks who want to explore their kinky side. The more I talked with her, the more I realized that our messages are similar.
My time spent with her reminded me that Life is like a big buffet with all kinds of choices. You fill your plate with the things that look good to you and try them out. Then go back for more if you liked it. Rock On! |
I need this thought today…maybe you do to?
Posted by: | CommentsWhen the desire is born, right away you start counting yourselves a failure, because you’ve got this desire that hasn’t been satisfied. Know that you never get it done! And since you never get it done, it’s time to stop being unhappy about what’s undone, because most of it is undone! You are an eternal being. Most of it is undone. Instead of taking score about what’s been achieved — we want you to start feeling anticipation about what is still to arrive…
~Abraham-Hicks
Excerpted from the workshop in Spokane, WA on Wednesday, July 7th, 1999
I need to take this in today! This week I have been feeling like I am not getting anywhere because there is always more to do. I kept noticing that I was feeling frustrated like there was not end in site!
THAT IS NOT THE WAY I WANT TO FEEL.
So…I decided to take a half day break…..give myself some love and self care…enjoy the lovely weather…..and to spend some time with Abraham-Hick. This material always brings me back to center and into alignment. it is such a sweet opening that occurs when I listen to and read this
material.
Rock On!
Leah
Listen to DTB Radio Episode 3: Making Your Own Rules For Life
Posted by: | CommentsThis is a wonderful discussion around how other peoples rules become part of our lives from the get go, and how that conditions us to follow other peoples rules throughout our lives. We then explored different ways to determine if it is time for some new rules in your life, and if so, how do you go about determining what works for you.
10 Tips for Diving Into Your Ever Abundant Flow
Posted by: | Comments1. Embrace the idea that the Universe is conspiring WITH you to have what you want.It always sends you what you ask for, every time. (Remember that you asking with your emotions and feelings not just your thoughts)
2. Once you got this, be a pal and tell the Universe what you want by thinking about it and feeling it. Spend time imagining all the things you want to experience, and really get into the feeling of what it would be like to have it. How would it affect your life? What would be different?
3. Ignore reality and tell the story of how you want it to be. It is easy to get caught up in the idea that you are supposed to tell “it like it is” rather than telling the story of what you desire. When you continue to focus on a “reality” that is undesirable to you, you are actually amplifying the energy of that thing and asking for more of the same.
4. Recognize that in every moment, you can focus on the “Good reality” or the “Bad reality”. They both exist with every possible “in between” outcome at all times for every subject. The outcome that you experience is determined by where you are focusing your attention in this broad spectrum of possibilities.
5. Spend time every day amplifying the energy of what you want more of. It is easy! All you need to do is appreciate the things that you are enjoying in your day and the people around you. It could be an s simple as noticing someone’s earrings, or mentioning something you appreciate about your partner. Allow yourself to feel the good feelings that brings up. That is the energy you want more of.
6. Learn to pivot your thoughts from what you don’t want to what you do want. This simple exercise will immediately shift your energy to a more expansive vibration. When you notice yourself focusing on what you do not want, either in conversation or in your head, say, “I clearly know what I Do NOT wants. What is it that I DO want?”
7. Create some quiet “alone time” everyday to slow down and chill out. Meditate, take a walk outside, listen to some music that sooths you, whatever it is that allows you to slow down and connect yourself. Step outside of your usual swirl and re-connect to your center.
8. Hang out with positive, happy people. Spending time with folks who are bitching and complaining only brings you down. Find a group of people who are focused and talking about living the life you want to create. Stay away from groups that focus on what you are not wanting. For example, do not join a group protesting war, but rather join a group that supports peace.
9. Make it your mission to notice the abundance that already exists in your life. Notice that you have food and cloths and a roof over your head. Be thrilled that you found a penny in your couch. See the abundance of love you have for your pets and that they give you back. Be thankful for the coffee someone bought you, or the lunch you got at your meeting at work. If you start looking for the abundance, I guarantee that you will begin to see it all around you.
10. Have fun! Laugh and Play! Enjoy your friends and family!
Stuck in the Details: How to make your dream a reality
Posted by: | CommentsI see this all the time: Someone comes to me because they are feeling stuck and frustrated around ‘HOW’ to bring their great new idea into being. They are ready to make a change, they even know what they want to create for themselves, but they do not have a clue how to make it happen. They are frustrated because they feel stuck in not knowing how to go about it. They can’t figure out the details of how it is going to work. They feel bogged down in all the details and eventually they get frustrated enough to give up on the idea.
Not knowing what to do is frustrating, and can feel like you are banging your head up against a wall. This feeling leads many folks to just give up and not even try. The discomfort of not knowing is so overwhelming that it makes some folks give up their dreams as being unattainable. I am here to tell you that all your dreams are possible and attainable; you just need to approach the process of creating them a bit differently.
First thing you need to do is accept the idea that you are not going to know what to do sometimes, and that is OK. It is part of the process. BUT, just because you do not know now, it does not mean you will not know later. You need to create some space for the ‘HOW’ of something to revel itself. The best way to do that is to stay tuned into the energy of ‘WHAT‘you want and ‘WHY’ you want it.
Let me break this down a bit more.
The ‘What’ is the actual thing that you want to bring into your life? It may be a new job, relationship, money, house, car or any other thing that you want.
The ‘WHY’ is the reason you want this ‘thing’. There is always a reason behind a desire. When you get right down to it, you believe that this ‘thing’ will make you feel a certain way. This feeling is what you want to tap into.
For example, maybe you want a new job because you want to make more money and be more creative. You have no idea how to find this job, and where to look.
The ‘What’ would be the new job.
The ‘Why’ would be the feeling of having more money and creativity.
Allow yourself to imagine what it will be like to be enjoying your new job with your creativity flowing and the money rolling in. Imagine what your ideal day would look like. What would you do with the extra money? How does it feel to be so tapped in creatively? Are you happy to get up in the morning? Expand this vision as wide as possible and tap into it frequently. By doing this you are expanding the energy of your desire. As you amplify the energy of it, the details and the how of it will start to appear.
I guarantee it. It is the nature of the Universe.
Take a minute and share the ‘What” and the ‘Why” of what you want. Start amplifying it now!
