Archive for enough money

Recently, I was having a conversation with someone around this very
subject. He was wondering if he was on the right path because he
was not getting the business that he needed to keep moving forward.
His business had dropped off significantly over the past few years
due to the economy and other trends in his field. He’s been living
off his savings lately and was considering going out and getting
another job, but he did not want to. He loves his work and the idea
of giving it up and doing something else was painful.

We talked about his situation for awhile, and it became very clear
that he was doing exactly what he is meant to be doing, but his
fear and doubt were stopping him from putting himself out there in
bold new ways in order to attract business.

His energy was used up by questioning his self worth and he did
not trust in his ability to make it work. As things got tougher and
tougher, the fearful voice in his head got louder and his
self-doubt grew. Every unsuccessful offer became an opportunity for
that voice to say:”I told you so.”

Have you ever felt that way?

I sure have!

I have stood chest deep in my fear around not making enough money,
and no one wanting what I am offering. My fear drained my energy
and caused me to make a bunch of half-assed attempts to offer my
services. I was so afraid of being rejected; I did not really even
try to put myself out there. Of course no one hired me, and I could
hear my fear whispering in my ear: “I told you so”.

So what did I do?

I learned how to kick-fears ass so that it no longer has power over
me.

Once I did this, I was able to own that I was on the right path and
I was 100% committed to making it work. I began to show up fully in
my business and it became much easier to stretch myself and try new
things to stand out from the crowd. Failure is not an option for me.

My questions to your are:

What would be possible if fear was not controlling you anymore?

What would you try?

How would you show up in your business and your life?

Share your answers in the comments below!

Categories : Clearing the Way
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Law of Attraction 101: What you focus on expands into your reality.

Simple enough.

Most people are spending their time focusing energy on what they do not want and what is not working for them. They are very busy trying to fix it or are spending a lot of time and energy pushing against what they do not want.

In a way this is CRAZY! You are amplifying the energy of what you do NOT WANT by doing this. Every time you call up your friend and tell the story about how your job sucks, or you don’t have enough money, or how your partner never does the dishes you are essentially telling the Universe that you want more of that. ( joining support groups and online chat forums about what you do not want is amplifying the energy too.)

You want something to be different….focus your energy on how you want it to be.
Re-Write your story so that it has the outcome that you desire.
Call your friends up and tell the story of all the goodness that you see and will have in your life.
Talk about the things you are thankful for.
Join groups that support and talk about what you are wanting to create or wanting more of.

So…where is your attention flowing????

Categories : Stretching Yourself
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Many of my clients start working with me because they have reached a point in their lives where they are not getting the satisfaction and success that they are wanting. This problem usually shows up in their professional lives first, but I find that it carries over into their personal lives too. When we explore the issue, a Pre-Packaged belief is most always the cause of the problem.
A Pre-Packaged Belief is a story that you tell yourself about how the word works, or what is possible. These stories might be handed down to you by your family, or the people around you, or even the media. It is usually something you have heard over and over and you believe it to be true. The thing is, these stories are not necessarily true…especially for you. Trying to live by this pre-package belief may because you discomfort, or is extremely challenge, and ultimately it just is not working for you. The end result is that you are not getting the results that you desire and it feels like a struggle to make it work.
I used to work with sincere, intelligent, magical guy who had just turned 30. He came to me because he was struggling in his job as a warehouse manager. He was stressed out and overwhelmed most of the time. He wanted help finding a way to make it bearable. We soon uncovered the issue. He was really a musician at heart. Playing music was what brought him the most connection and happiness. But, he had bought into the story that you could not make enough money to survive as a musician. His father had drilled it into his head that he needed a secure job with a steady income in order to get ahead and survive. So, that is what he did. He left making music for his spare time. The problem with this is that his “secure job” left him feeling depleted and depressed and he did not have the energy to make music. He began to doubt himself and got caught in the trap of thinking that he had to “fix” himself in order to get ahead. This was not a great place to be standing in.
I asked him to re-write his story about making money as a musician. What if you could make enough money to THRIVE by making music? What would that look like? As he began to explore what this might look like to him, he began to become aware of a number of different possibilities around how this might work for him. I gave him some homework that allowed him to connect with this energy on a deeper level. I taught him some tricks to use so tha he would stay connected to his new story of being a successful musician. Next thing you know he had a plan. He decided to move to Atlanta and tap into the music scene there. I just heard from him the other day. After being in Atlanta for 4 months, he has lined up enough work as a professional musician to pay the bills and then some. He is living his dream and making money too. He has tapped into his ever abundant flow and life feels great!
I can help you do this too. Give me a call to see how we might work together.

Categories : Stretching Yourself
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