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Jul
08

This Week I’m Appreciating…..

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A couple of weeks ago I moved a fun game I created called Amplification Friday from my FaceBook Fan Page over here to my blog.

Rather than go through a big detailed description about what Amplification Friday is every time Friday comes around, I’ve decided to use this space to amplify the energy of what I’m appreciating in my life in the hopes that you will join me and do the same!

This week I’m appreciating the deep relaxation that I was able to enjoy over the weekend. It’s awesome to be surrounded by nature, with nothing much to do, sitting on a rocking chair on Kim & Jer’s front porch reading a book and hanging out with my sweetie. I totally enjoyed going to bed early and sleeping in late. Grilling steaks, eating locally raised sausage, homemade waffles, and the cupcake comparisons that we did. It was fun to play with Kim & Jer’s son Alerick in the front yard and going to see fireworks on the 4th of July. The warm clean air felt wonderful on my skin and everything was so green and lush! It smelled so good……just like I imagine the color green would smell.

I’m also appreciating my sexy sexy iphone. It lets me roam far an wide and still be tapped into my coaching biz when I feel like checking in. I can easily stay in touch with people and amuse myself playing Pocket God and Bejeweled. The camera and video makes it so easy to take pictures and document where I’ve been. I’m now a picture taking fool! Being able to go online and find out the closest piercing place comes in handy too! I feel like it greatly adds to my freedom and my Kick-Ass Life.

I appreciate my freedom! My life is custom designed to fit me perfectly and I’m thankful for it everyday. I get to do all the stuff I love while surround by some totally amazing cool people. My clients are truly inspirational. They are so ready and willing to be vulnerable and open up and expand into their brilliance. I am constantly in awe of the growth and expansion that I witness. I’m thrilled to be able to be a mirror for them as they uncover the self-defeating stories and limiting beliefs that are holding them back. The most awesome part is that this is the perfect enviornment for me to use my superpowers to help them identify those stories and beliefs. It’s all so perfect!

Here are some fireworks from the 4th shared via my sexy sexy iphone-

 

Your turn! What are you appreciating from your week?

 

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Apr
28

The Rock- Vintage Defy the Box

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This post was originally a guest post done for my friend Fiona at http://www.yearinamerica.net. Then yesterday, Fiona told me the story of how her daughter was so inspired by this post and my approach to life that she named a gym in her movie script after me. Very Cool!!!! So,I decided to bring this post back and share it again.

The Rock

Back in the day, I was part of a really cool woman’s mystery school and leadership program called the Priestess Path Apprenticeship. This program was truly amazing and opened the way for deep personal growth.  This group of 24 women gathered together once a month and spent time in circle exploring many mystical practices and initiations aimed at making us confront our  fear and inner-demons in order to know ourselves better. It was very powerful work.

One of the things we did was called the Quest. Each of us was lead on a journey down a dark path through an unknown forest. There were many stops along the way designed to challenge you and make you think. At one stop you were asked how heavy your past emotional baggage weighed on you.  Then you were given a big rock to carry with you along the path to represent your baggage.

Let me tell you that carrying that rock sucked! It was awkward and took so much energy. It weighed me down. At each new stop along the trail it became more and more irritating. The longer I carried it, the heavier it became and the more I focused on it. I was not able to enjoy the cool stuff I was coming across along the path because I was so focused on carrying the rock and how much it sucked. The rock became the focus of everything.

Finally, I got fed up and decide to throw the rock off into the woods. Boy what a relief.  I felt free. The Quest was fun again. I wondered why I did not ditch the rock sooner.

Interesting enough, I was the only one who chose to ditch their rock. Everyone else kept lugging the thing along until they came to a stop where someone else relived them of it. It never occurred to them that they might have a choice in the matter.

I wonder how many of you are carrying around a Rock of your own without giving thought to the idea that you have a choice in the matter.

There is always a choice.

Choose to let it go and focus on what feels good to you right now.

Choose to enjoy the adventure.

Ditch the Rock!

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Feb
22

Are You a Non-Conforming Soul?

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Fitting in is so not your thing!

Maybe you tried when you were younger, but you had a hard time forcing yourself to be like everyone else. It always felt awkward and fake. You aren’t cut out for having the same hair style, cloths and lifestyle as everyone else. It just doesn’t work for you. You have your own freaky flair going on.

You’re bored by the notion of being part of the pack.

You’re not much of a follower. You have your own ideas about things and are not afraid to go off and explore a new path. That’s where all the fun is!

It’s  hard to find people to spend time with who actually understand you.

Your unconventional ideas and the fact that you don’t try to fit in is threatening to other people. They often times try to make you wrong for being different. You are at your best when you are in the company of free thinkers and creative people who have their own things going on too.

Your interests stray far from the mainstream mentality.

You’ve always had a different way of looking at things. This can make you feel alone and like an outsider because the people around you don’t get your unconventional ideas. You’ve heard the words; “You can’t do that”, “What are you crazy”, “That won’t work” many times!

Because of this, you often doubt yourself and feel like it isn’t possible to live the life that you desire. The opportunities offered by the ‘mainstream’ aren’t in alignment with what you want for your life. It’s not uncommon for you to find yourself stuck in a rut and unsure of how to get out if it.

You want to live life on your own terms.

You are tired of trying to live up to other people’s expectations around how you should live your life. It’s exhausting and unsatisfying. You want the freedom to live life in a way that feels right to you.

There is a part of you that is crying out for something more.

It won’t settle for the unsatisfying, uninspiring, ‘normal’ life that 90% of the people around you are living. This voice inside of you will not be ignored! It’s demanding to be set free so that it can bring your own unique freaky flair out into the world, but you’re not sure how to do that in a way that feels right to you.

I can help you set your non-conforming soul free.

Being a non-conforming soul myself, I get where you’re coming from. I invite you to check out my services page to explore how we can work together to custom design your life to fit you perfectly.

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Dec
23

Freedom is the main ingredient!

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Are you curious about what  “a Kick-Ass Life” is?

A Kick-Ass Life is living on your own terms and having the freedom and flexibility to be your freaky self while receiving the abundance of the universe. It is a life that is designed to fit you perfectly. You get to do what you want to do, and you don’t have to conform to anyone else’s ideas about what your life should be.

In a Kick-Ass Life, you are deeply satisfied in all aspects of your life, and if you aren’t, you are identifying how to get to that point. You feel invigorated and alive and look forward to each day.

The details of what this looks like are different for everyone, so the key is to begin identifying what YOUR version of Kick-Ass looks like. If you need help with this contact me here and we can discuss the different options that you have for doing this.

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Another Monday on deck and I am looking forward to doing my new online radio show, My Kick-Ass Dream Life, this afternoon at 3 PM. The fact that I actually like Monday’s is a wonderful thing, and now that I am doing this show it makes them all the sweeter.

Today we will be talking about discovering your own version of kick-ass. It looks different for everyone and it is important to do a bit of soul searching to discover what will make you feel alive, excited, successful and complete.

There are so many possibilities out there for a non-conforming soul to consider once you’ve broken free from the mainstream mentality.

For example, how do you want to feel in your relationships? Do you prefer to have only one partner, or would you rather have many? Do you want children, or would you rather not be a parent? Do you prefer to live together, or maintain separate homes and lifestyles? All of these things are possible. The best part is that you get to choose which serves you best.

No one is judging you here. I want you to do what is right for you and allows you to feel the freedom and satisfaction that you desire in your life.

Maybe that freedom & satisfaction comes in the form of a monogamous heterosexual relationship where you are married and live in a nice house with a white picket fence and have two kids.

Or just maybe that freedom and satisfaction comes in the form of a polyamorous relationship with a few different men and women where you share a home with your primary female partner and children while spending time with your male partner at his apartment, and enjoying dates with other love interests.

It’s all good here, and I want to empower you to discover what works best for you.

So if you want to get in on the conversation click this link and you will be directed to the show page.

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/my-kick-ass-dream-life-/2010/09/20/discover-your-own-version-of-kick-ass

No worries if you missed the live show. You can listen to the podcast by clicking the same link when ever works for you.

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