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How to have a Kick-Ass Job Show Series
Posted by: | CommentsWe’re getting ready to start a new show series tomorrow on My Kick-Ass Dream Life.
It’s called – How to Have a Kick-Ass Job and we would love to have you join us for a live show or listen to the podcast.
Is your job satisfying?
Do you get what you need from it?
Whether it is your life’s work, or just a paycheck, it can be a Kick-Ass situation for you. So much of your life is spent working; you might as well get what you need from it. During this series we will explore different ways to make your J.O. B. deeply satisfying and fulfilling.
3/7/ 2011
Week 1: Claiming it!
Why are you working? What do you want to get from it? Is it just a paycheck or is it your life’s work? Knowing these things makes it so much easier to create the ideal situation. During this show we empower you to get clear on exactly what you want from your work life and to claim it for yourself.
3/14/2011
Week 2: What prevents you from having the ideal work situation?
What stands in the way of you having your idea work situation right now? What needs to shift and change for that to happen? During this show we identify the blocks and help you move through them.
Week 3: Bringing it in.
What does the perfect job look like to you?
Once you identify what you want from your job, how do you go about building upon that information and creating the ideal situation for yourself? On today’s show we will talk about how to identify what you want and then amplify the energy in order to create a deeply satisfying and fulfilling work situation.
Let’s get freaky!
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inner-freak as your super power
This week on My Kick-Ass Dream Life we’re gonna get freaky and talk about embracing your Inner-Freak. ( This show was postponed till Oct. 25th…please join us then!)
“What the hell is my inner-freak? Is this something sexual?”
Well…..it can be something sexual…but not necessarily.
Your Inner-Freak is your super power! This is where your magic lies.
It knows what you are really good at and what you will get the most satisfaction from.
It also knows what will make you happy and is always on the lookout for fun.
Your Inner-Freak is the part of you that is uniquely you and different from everyone else. It likes to put potato chips on your tuna fish sandwich, and wear glittery eye makeup and crystals on your forehead. It’s the part that likes to dress up in crazy costumes and frolic in the forest. It is the part that cries out for something more, and longs to go on grand adventures. It is the part of you that thinks it will be fun to go to Tuscany and do pottery for the summer, or quit your boring day job and become a yoga teacher in Peru.
The sad part is that most of us learned to ignore our Inner –Freak at a young age. Sometimes people didn’t respond to our ‘freakiness’ so well. We learned to hide it so that we could fit in and not be made fun of or bullied. We convinced ourselves that there was something wrong with our Inner-Freak and we learned tune it out and ignore it.
I will let you in on a secret……if you want to live a Kick-Ass Life; you need to become good friends with your Inner-Freak. It is your biggest asset.
Want to learn more about doing this? Tune in Monday-10/25 – at 3 PM EST and get in on the conversation. http://www.blogtalkradio.com/my-kick-ass-dream-life-/2010/10/25/lets-get-freaky
The Real Reason Why the Things You Want Aren’t Showing Up
Posted by: | CommentsDo you ever get discouraged because the things that you want in your kick-ass life have not appeared yet?
You did the work of identifying what your Kick-Ass Dream Life would look like, you put things in motion, but it still hasn’t manifested. It’s so frustrating and you have no idea what you are doing wrong.
Don’t give up!
The reason why your kick-ass life has not appeared yet is because you are not used to thinking of yourself living it.
I am serious.
How much time do you spend actually picturing yourself living your kick-ass dream life?
Do you think of yourself utilizing the things that are the building blocks of your aspirations?
You have to visualize being the Star of your kick-ass life and play it over and over in your mind so that it becomes part of you.
This is a key step in Kick-Ass Creation!
What I usually see clients doing before they start working with me is that they spend time dreaming about what their kick-ass life would look like, and have maybe even created a vision board about it, but then they go about business as usual. They still do all the same things that they were always doing, except now they notice how the things they want are not appearing. They think about their goals, BUT they do not picture themselves having and using the things that comprise their Kick-Ass Dream Life. The things they want are still separate and outside of themselves.
You need to claim your kick-ass dream and own it. Think of yourself as already living it and act as-if it is already here.
Here are a few of the tricks that I share with my private clients that you can use to help with this process:
- Take time to connect to your version of your kick-ass life: Write out a detailed version of what a typical day in your kick-ass life looks like. How do you feel when you wake up? How does your day flow? With whom do you talk? With whom do you have dinner? Read this everyday and imagine yourself living it.
- Believe that you can have it!!! Seriously! Your doubt is a gigantic obstacle to getting what you want.
- Act as-if you are already living your kick-ass life and create the support structures that you will need to do so. Let go of the things that do not serve your new vision and bring in what you now need. For example, if your kick-ass life includes climbing Mt. Everest, you had better make sure exercise is a big part of your week. This applies to everything: people, environments, health, etc.
- Talk about your version of Kick-Ass. Tell people what you are doing and creating. Speaking it gives it power, and it also makes you a bit more accountable.
- Spend time looking for evidence that your desires are showing up. Notice every little thing on your list that is evident in your new life already.
Give these tricks a try and let me know what happens in the comments below.
If you are interested in becoming an expert at Kick-Ass Creation, sign up for this call on Oct. 19th: The 5 Steps to Creating Your Kick-Ass Dream Life. This free call will teach you everything you need to know to start bringing more kick-ass into your life right now. Sign up here: http://www.DefytheBox.com/free-call
What will bring you the freedom and satisfaction that you desire?
Posted by: | CommentsAnother Monday on deck and I am looking forward to doing my new online radio show, My Kick-Ass Dream Life, this afternoon at 3 PM. The fact that I actually like Monday’s is a wonderful thing, and now that I am doing this show it makes them all the sweeter.
Today we will be talking about discovering your own version of kick-ass. It looks different for everyone and it is important to do a bit of soul searching to discover what will make you feel alive, excited, successful and complete.
There are so many possibilities out there for a non-conforming soul to consider once you’ve broken free from the mainstream mentality.
For example, how do you want to feel in your relationships? Do you prefer to have only one partner, or would you rather have many? Do you want children, or would you rather not be a parent? Do you prefer to live together, or maintain separate homes and lifestyles? All of these things are possible. The best part is that you get to choose which serves you best.
No one is judging you here. I want you to do what is right for you and allows you to feel the freedom and satisfaction that you desire in your life.
Maybe that freedom & satisfaction comes in the form of a monogamous heterosexual relationship where you are married and live in a nice house with a white picket fence and have two kids.
Or just maybe that freedom and satisfaction comes in the form of a polyamorous relationship with a few different men and women where you share a home with your primary female partner and children while spending time with your male partner at his apartment, and enjoying dates with other love interests.
It’s all good here, and I want to empower you to discover what works best for you.
So if you want to get in on the conversation click this link and you will be directed to the show page.
No worries if you missed the live show. You can listen to the podcast by clicking the same link when ever works for you.
